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I lived there my entire childhood and, like most kids, couldn’t wait to move out of my hometown. (Incidentally, I moved all the way far away to Westfield). It wasn’t until I was solidly in my adulthood that I started to look at Southwick with new eyes. There was one day in my early 20’s that I vividly recall driving down College Highway and being smacked with the realization that Southwick was simply beautiful. How had I lived there, driven up and down that very stretch of road daily and never noticed just how lovely the barns are with the rising mountain behind them? How had I missed the lovely lines of a stately farmhouse or the rolling lushness of a fallow tobacco field? How had I never noticed the rosy glow of the sunset over Congamond Lakes? At that point, I made a vow to pay more attention to the beauty that was right there and relish the unexpected loveliness in the familiar landscapes.
Dedicated to this cause, I drove the streets and country roads that I had traversed thousands of times in my youth, but this time I really soaked it up. I looked for the scenic spots and I stopped and took in the sights and scents of the area. I immersed myself in all things Southwick and made an effort to spend more time being social in Southwick.
I fell in love. I fell in love with my hometown of Southwick and I have never stopped loving it since.
While I retained my love for my hometown in the years after this, the vivid urgency in rediscovery had faded and I started to take this lovely town for granted again, until this past weekend. I held an open house on Pineywood Road in Southwick last Sunday and a high school friend of mine came by to see the house and ended up staying the length of the event chatting. In the course of our conversation we shared the reasons that Southwick tugs at our hearts and draws us geographically. We have a mutual fondness for the scenery, but it is the people that make this town special. There is a unique bonding to the residents and an old fashioned concern for neighbors, friends and even old classmates that isn’t as common as it should be. Some people don’t like small town life or even Southwick, specifically, because they find that everyone is in everyone else’s business. My friend and I decided a couple of things about that: #1- they are usually only interested because they care about you somehow, #2- even those that are interested for the wrong reasons are not typically malicious and #3- when push comes to shove, Southwickians have each other’s back.
No matter how you look at it, Southwick, MA is an amazing small town in Western Massachusetts and there are many reasons to love it. I decided to ask my Southwick friends on Facebook why they love the town and here are some of their responses along with my own additions to the “Top Ten Reasons To Love Southwick, MA”
Did you know that the original Summer House was run by Friendly’s and was really only open in the Summer? It was much smaller than it is now. I lived on Sefton Drive and would take a shortcut through the woods and the yard of the Lutheran Church to get my ice cream cone there on a hot day. Now it is a year round family style restaurant with fun outdoor seating and a wooden stationary train that the kids love.
No question about it, these are THE BEST DONUTS ever. I don’t even like donuts and I love Mrs. Murphy’s. This hometown operation is legendary and people who move away make sure to take a special trip here when they are home. It still has the old fashioned feel of a coffee shop and there is nothing more yummy than a cinnamon donut from Mrs. Murphy’s. My breakfast in high school was often a coconut donut from Mrs. Murphy’s purchased in the cafeteria. If you live in Western MA and haven’t been, you need a road trip STAT.
I never appreciated the fact that Southwick is a lake community as a kid. I am not sure why, but I do now. A year or so ago, I took a lovely sunset cruise on the lake with some friends and we saw the most amazing sunset over a glass of wine. Another day the kids were tubing and swimming and I always love to listen to the bands at Louie B’s. Amusing geographical fact, the reason for the “jog” in the Massachusetts border is probably so that MA could retain most of the Congamond Lakes. On my Facebook poll my boyfriend, Morriss, added this: “…Southwickians are keeping a whole bunch of land that ought to belong to Connecticut in the mitts of the Massachusettonians.”
Many people in my informal Facebook poll said that they love all of the farmstands. There does seem to be a seasonal farmstand all over the place, but my year round favorite is Putnam Farms/ Blossoming Acres. In Southwick you will find the best that Western MA produce can provide including corn, strawberries, asparagus, apples and much more!
Not just a spot for delinquent teenagers to hide out (not that I would know ANYTHING about THAT), the Gorge is an absolutely amazing spot for a hike, brisk dunk in the mountain waters or a picnic. While the name would suggest it is in Granville, it is still within Southwick town borders and is worth a day trip for sure. I hadn’t been in decades until last year when I made an impromtu stop with my girls who had a blast swimming in the chilly waters.
The scenery was mentioned by many people in my questioning and I agree. Southwick is set in the lower Pioneer Valley and as such is verdant, green and blessed with many amazing views. We are at the foothills of the mountains and there are many wide open farm spaces with lovely vistas. We have gorgeous homes on tree lined streets and the lake area, too!
Many respondents said that they love the family oriented nature of the town and the schools for their kids. It was at least a decade after my high school graduation before I realized how lucky I had been with such a wonderful and caring background in my education. One of my best friends from school is now a high school counselor and I am so glad that she is there to guide the next generation.
There is such a thing as being too far in the country for many homeowners. There are a lot of people (myself included) who crave some level of country feel and solitude, but don’t want to live away from conveniences that a larger city provides. Southwick is set in an ideal spot to solve that issue for most people. Westfield, Agawam and Springfield are very close with even bigger cities like Hartford and Boston being a reasonable driving distance.
Yes, little did you outsiders realize that Southwick is the hot bed of a long-lived pizza war. Many of the participants change along the way, but the two main combatants are Roma Restaurant and Village Pizza. Shout out to me…which slice is the best? (I am a Roma girl, for the record).
I already mentioned this, but it bears repeating. I see lovely outpourings of support and love for fellow Southwick natives EVERY DAY on Facebook. We may not all live in Southwick, still, but it is still in our hearts and we still reach out to one another to share and assist. There is something wonderful about a small town that fosters this level of caring concern and I am glad to have been raised in Southwick, MA.
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I am currently reading “The Kaizen Way”, which was recommended by Brian Buffini in a training that I am taking at Park Square Realty. It is an easy read with lots of great actionable steps that I think will help me improve my skills as a real estate professional, but it is not a real estate book.
“Introducing the practical and inspirational guide to incorporating Kaizen and its powerful principles into one’s daily life. Rooted in the two thousand-year-old wisdom of the Tao Te Ching–“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”–Kaizen is the art of making great and lasting change through small, steady increments. Kaizen is the tortoise versus the hare. Kaizen is the eleven Fortune 500 companies that significantly outperformed the market through moderate, step-by-step actions. Kaizen is losing weight not by a crash diet (which more often than not crashes) but by eating one bite less at each meal–then, a month later, eating two bites less. Kaizen is starting a life-changing exercise program by standing–just standing–on a treadmill for one minute a day.
Written by an expert on Kaizen–Dr. Robert Maurer, a psychologist on the staff at the UCLA medical school who speaks and consults nationally–One Small Step is the gentle but potent way to effect change. Beginning by outlining the all-important role that fear plays in all types of change–and Kaizen’s ability to circumvent it–Dr. Maurer then explains the 7 Small Steps: how to Think Small Thoughts, Take Small Actions, Solve Small Problems, and more. He shows how to perform mind sculpture–visualizing virtual change so that real change comes more naturally. Why small rewards motivate better than big rewards. How great discoveries are made by paying attention to the little details most of us overlook. Hundreds of examples of Kaizen at work grace the book, as well as quotes from W. Edwards Deming (who brought Kaizen to Japanese industry), Peter Drucker, coach John Wooden, and others.”
I made my Abouthom.es Girls video this week a book report on “The Kaizen Way” and I also want to know what books inspire you…I want to add them to my reading list!

On Sunday May 19, 2013 I held my first ever Client Appreciation Party. It was an open house style event held at Blossoming Acres / Putnam Farms in Southwick, MA.

My associate, Claire, and I co-hosted the event and invited our clients to stop by for some fresh baked goodies, hay rides, games, conversation and a free plant! While the weather wasn’t overly cooperative (rained most of the time), many of our clients still came by and we loved visiting with them.

I will be making this an annual event and hope that those that couldn’t make it this time will be able to join me next time!

I have been dancing my whole life and dance is a huge part of who I am. Dance has been a hobby, sport, job, creative outlet, family bonding and friendship building experience for me. Most all, dance has been my outlet.
I am so grateful to have dance in my life now and love sharing the joy of dance with my daughters and my students at New England Dance Centers. I appreciate spending time with these kids and really enjoy that they crave my experience and input. There is something so wonderful about sharing a passion with the next generation. It is very empowering to know that what I teach these young people will impact and help to shape who they become.
Dance is also a large part of why I am such a good (if I do say so myself) real estate agent for my clients and customers in Western MA. Dance taught me to set goals and take steps towards achieving those goals, dance taught me that determination and spirit will lead to success, dance gave me the strength and confidence to back up my thoughts, dance gave me the ability to gracefully accept constructive criticism

and dance gave me a quiet space inside to help find answers to questions. These are leadership skills that I may not have learned, or learned as well, another way.
So, while I am a full time (60 to 80 hours a week is full time, right?) REALTOR, a job that I truly love, I am glad to still have dance in my life. Some people spend their “down time” at the gym or playing poker or doing crafts. I spend mine at the dance studio with my daughters.
Below are some videos I have created about dance. There is one very short (and pretty crappy quality) video of me tap dancing and there is a video I made for the Abouthom.es Girls talking about why I love dance (in which I tap dance again).
If you want a REALTOR who learned important leadership skills at an early age and who loves dance, but never gives a song and dance in her real estate work then call Lesley Lambert, Dancing REALTOR at Park Square Realty in Westfield, MA.